Some Bad News Lads and Ladies (1 Viewer)

arnhem44mad

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Some of you know that my mum had been fighting leukemia since last summer. She got the all clear on her birthday, the 29th of November,and the whole family had an amazing Christmas and New Year, unfortunately in mid January she was told her Leukemia had came back and she fought it until 2 weeks ago when she was told that there was nothing that could be done anymore and that she only had a few weeks left. The family including myself was devistated but she told us not to be sad and she literally spent her last 2 weeks organising everything for her own funeral and saying goodbye to friends and family. My Mum Joan Nisbet passed away last night, Monday the 11th of March 2013. Myself, my dad and my cousin were with her up until the end. She went off peacefully in her sleep and as far as I'm concerned she beat her leukemia as it was not that which killed her. Had it been the leukemia she would have been in pain.

My mum always encouraged my hobbies as though she saw them as expensive she viewed them positively as in her words 'He could be spending his money on worse things'. My mum always let me use her PayPal account for ebay or any online transactions and I used to give her the cash (I thought) but I know that she used to pay a large chunk of it and tell me I'd already paid her!

She was the greatest woman I have ever met, she was a workaholic, she was a manager of a doctor's surgery and her colleagues loved her. Her friends and family always held a special place in her heart and believe me she was the greatest mum in the world, she always inspired me to do well, supported and encouraged me to use my mind before jumping into situations. She got the loft done up just for me so I could put my collections out on show, but before she did that she used to let me set my dioramas up on two huge wooden tables which we had in the garage in the living room or up in my room.

My mum is responsible for a large part of my collection and I will always remember the pieces she suprised me with! At King and Country events my mum used to drive me down and walk around the show room with me without a complaint. She really enjoyed seeing and speaking with the K&C UK gang and even asked Andy to sign my staghound armoured car box at a Londown Show a few years ago.

Thanks for reading lads!

Scott
 
I am saddened to read this Scott. So sorry for your loss. You Mum sounds like a remarkable woman.

You and your family will be in my thoughts.

Feel free to pm if you need a shoulder.


Regards & Deepest Sympathies
Scott
 
I wish you much strength in these days for you and your family.
richard
 
So sorry to here of your loss Scott.Always cherish your time with her.Sounds like she was the greatest mom in the world.
Mark
 
Scott,
Mate I know how you are feeling right now as I to lost my Mum in July last year, it means nothing just now to hear that the pain does ease a little over time and you start to reflect on just what a rock ones Mum is in our lives. Stay strong mate and always remember that your Mum would want you to keep on keeping on with a smile.
Wayne.
 
I'm so so sorry to hear that Scott. However, she raised a fine son. My best to you and your family in this tough time.

Cheers,

Brad
 
Sorry for the loss of your mother Scott. She was a wonderful person and our prayers for you and family. Leadmen
 
Thanks very much guys for your kind words. Everyone who has seen me is saying that they think I am coping well as I have not been upset really and I myself am surprised at this. I feel comfort knowing that she didn't suffer and she will be with her dad now.
 
Scott,

I am sorry for your loss. Your mother sounds like a wonderful woman, and she, you, and your family will be in my thoughts.

Respectfully,

Louis
 
Sorry for the loss of your mother, Scott. The pain will ease with time, but we always remember our mothers. Lost mine in 1980 and I still think of her everyday. My prayers to you and your family. -- Al
 
Scott- As I was reading the things you said about your Mom helping you to collect, it really struck a chord with me. My mom does many of the same things, and has said the exact same thing before. Mothers are the best, especially ones as great as yours sounds. I am truly saddened by your loss, and I wish you the strength to work through what must be a very hard time. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.
-Sandor
 
Sorry to hear about this Scott, my thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

Glad you were able to spent time together enjoying your hobby, the memories you and her created will stay with you for the rest of your life, there is nothing on earth like a mothers love................
 
Scott, I am so sorry about your loss. May the pleasant memoies help you through this difficult time.
Dan
 
Scott,

Sorry for your loss, you and your family are in my prayers.

Brian
 
Scott

My condolances mate. My mum means the world to me so i can only imagine the loss you might be feeling right now. Your mum will always be in your heart mate and even though you are hurting right now, the pain will ease over time.

Take care

Tom
 
Scott,
Your post is one that both surprised and moved me. It`s not common to see nowadays someone sharing a deep loss represented by the departure of one`s mother with others in a forum such as this. Which only proofs that the work of a mother is reflected in the human quality of their sons. I can only say that she was a superb mother, because you are certainly a great son and human being in doing this. Your words show how present she was, and how much she inspired you with her example, all under a deep loving feeling. This is among, if not the the most, beautiful relationships one can experience in life; unfortunately, not everyone is so blessed, one more reason for you to express and share your love, gratitude and legitimate pride of your mother! A loving mother is irreplaceable, time will never erase her from you, maybe only ease the absence of her presence, and deepen the importance of her legacy to you. I am very sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Carlos
 
Scott...my condolences...your story was sad...but sounded peaceful too...your mother sounds like a "great mother"...one that really supported your passions...I'm sorry for your loss...
 
Scott ,

Such a heartfelt post...My deepest condolances go out for your's & your families loss...

Joe
 
Scott,

your mother sounds like a wonderful person who loved you very much, always remember the times you shared with her and keep her close in your thoughts, as I lost my mom when I was but 7 years old the pain will ease with time, but memories never have to fade, hang tough mate and remember there is no pain or suffer in Heaven...Sammy
 

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