Rob,
In all my years, I have only been able to attend one toy soldier show: Chicago, 2005. I traveled to Chicago with a number of items in mind for which I wanted to search and with a budget I was determined to stay within.
Did I stare at items before making purchasing decisions? You bet! I was very discplined during the first day of in-room trading (Thursday) I surveyed the items available and I made absolutely no purchases. From the second day (Friday) forward, I lost all control. I found many bargains I could not resist and I found other figures that captivated me. In fact, I now collect two new lines as a result of my attendance! I purchased Knights, Rorke's Drift figures, WW II soldiers, Samurai's, military bands, tanks, and artillery. I even purchased a figure of Zorro for fun, which is now hidden in my Alamo display!
Did I stay within my budget? Not really, but I did not exceed it too greatly. All I can say is that I don't remember when I had so much fun.
If I learned a lesson, it was not to attend too many shows as the temptations can become greater than your pocket book. The other lesson I learned was to avoid all shows unless you have a reasonable amount of money to spend at the show. I cannot think of many things more discouraging than (1) seeing all these beautiful items and not being able to buy some or (2) buying more than you can afford.
Warm regards,
Pat