I have a better one. Bidder from Greece, bids on an item. I send him an invoice and never hear from him. Month goes by and I'm still waiting. Now I'm pissed and want my fees credited back to my account. I mistakenly filed an auction cancellation. I should have filed a non paying bidder claim. eBay denies my claim because the bidder tells them he wants the item. Bidder then emails me telling me he had a car accident and needs 10 days. Two weeks go buy, no money no email. Now I'm even more pissed. A week later he bids on another one of my items, and sends me an email demanding that I combine both items and shipped them for free ! Now I'm really pissed. I then file a non paying bidder claim for the second item. Bidder emails me that because of the civil unrest in his country he needs more time. After about a half hour on the phone with eBay they finally agree to refund my final value fees. The eBay customer service rep was an ***, trying to make me feel like I was at fault. I tell him i would rather smash the item in the street before i sent it to this idiot. At that point I asked him what was happening with eBay ? How I have been using them for at least twelve years and have steadily watched them slide down hill. Sellers have no rights anymore, and eBay let's deadbeat bidders do anything they please. You can't even leave negative feedback anymore. Now I just leave negative comments as positive feedback. Hopefully others will read and be warned.
Well I had my share of eBay troubles with costumes but I developed an "Teflon" approach dealing with them so they can not make me "pissed" anymore
1. If a buyer does not pay in 7 days or whatever time stated in your terms, send him a reminder, and if you are still not paid next day after that , file "non-paying" buyer claim immediately . If a buyer pays after that : leave a positive feed back for him , if not put him on "ban list" to prevent him from future bidding on your items. Tell your eBay friends his handle so they can protect themselves as well.
2. Ship all International parcels over $100 total by Priority mail, and over $250 by Express mail if a destination permits. All other parcels ship by First Class.
3. Do not even bother to use USPS insurance , you will never get your money back
.. Use U-PIC insurance (
www.u-pic.com) or similar instead. It will let you insure all parcels including First Class International. U-PIC insurance rates are cheaper then USPS, claims are easy to submit and they always pay , usually in 10 business days.
4. Do not bother to argue with your buyers who complaint unfairly, you just can not win with current eBay policies...try to settle with them amicably usually by giving $5-$10 partial refund and then put them on your "ban list" if you feel like that.
5. If we had an alternative to eBay it would be an empty site in a NY minute
but we do not .. try eBid, Bonanza or build your own online store which is the best...
I hope it helps.
Al