Agreed Rob ...and I wasn't trying to provoke an argument with you. I was merely trying to make the point that all wars are ugly and to think that civilians are not, at times, deliberately targeted by both sides (even the 'good' guys) is simply disingenuous.
The tactics advocated by Arthur 'Bomber' Harris deliberately caused the deaths of more civilians than the IRA did (and don't get me wrong I am not a supporter, I think that they are terrorists). He advocated the bombing of working class suburbs of German towns to displace the German workforce and disrupt their ability to work. And he continued to support that policy even when Churchill showed his distaste.
It should be emphasized that the destruction of houses, public utilities, transport and lives, the creation of a refugee problem on an unprecedented scale, and the breakdown of morale both at home and at the battle fronts by fear of extended and intensified bombing, are accepted and intended aims of our bombing policy. They are not by-products of attempts to hit factories. - Sir Arthur Harris
(Sokolski, Henry D., ed. Getting MAD: Nuclear Mutual Assured Destruction, Its Origins and Practice. Carlisle, PA: Strategic Studies Institute, U.S. Army War College, 2004. ISBN 1-58487-172-5.)
A supporter of the IRA would probably also argue that their tactics were justified in light of the situation that THEY faced and that they were fighting for their freedom. I disagree with them and I agree with you that the fight against fascism was justified. But I don't think that any war is noble and we are all (myself included) being delusional and more than slightly hypocritical if we passionately embrace one war or side and then pass judgment on those who show an interest in another.
Sorry Rob, not offense meant, just my airing my POV when these discussions degenerate to the moral justification for collecting one army/unit/country/war over another.
Anyway, I'm off to play with my toy soldiers now... have a good one.