I spent a year of my life on the 'Z posted at the Joint Security Area (JSA)/Camp Greaves. I have spent the past 26 years trying to understand why I was there and have come to my own conclusions, some of which I will share below. Not many, if any, of you may know this but my curiosity did lead to me pursing an MA in Strategic Intelligence with a focus on NK studies from the American Military University.
First off- anyone wanting to understand the situation should read "The Two Koreas" by Don Oberdorfer- incredible read.
The irony of this entire geopolitical situation is how eerily similar it is to the events of 1914. You have two small countries that are slapped in the middle of a world power crossroads- between China and Russia on one side and then the US and Japan on the other. I believe the US has stood by the South and, in their own way, the USSR did as well- even though their way of standing by lead to the Korean War. China is the keystone to this entire affair- and yes, it is long since time for them to flex their diplomatic muscle and call for an end of all of this. Do I believe we are going to war, no, not at all- why? China will not allow it. They understand the calamity that would rock the entire peninsula and the global markets. They simply have far too much to lose.
Frankly, I respect- not admire- respect- Kim Il Sung- the "Dear Leader" who was installed as the first leader of the North. He was an incredible guerilla fighter who led an underground resistance effort against the Japanese during WW2. I think any American can respect that- unfortunately, I also believe he was probably our best bet to ever achieve a diplomatic solution towards unity but the Communists got to him first and we got Syngman Rhee. Since then, the megalomania has spiraled out of control- and we are where we are today. Kim Jong Un, being in his early 30's, has more diplomatic experience than I ever will- but he is still a man in his early 30's and will suffer from all the faults that come with being at that stage in his life. Unfortunately, he is the leader of a cracked out regime that appears to be poised to be incredibly dangerous.
Do I believe we are going to go to war? No- why? Many reasons, some of which- well, we have the bet intelligence community on the planet. I guarantee that they knew well before yesterday of where NK stood in all of this. The "War plans" were created back in 1947 and have undergone drafts and revisions ever since. We are ready to go strategically- physically- I'm not so sure- our equipment and gear took an incredible beating during the War on Terror- as did our troops- and our civilians. A nuke going off on our soil will motivate everyone initially to go to war- but the decade or so it will take if we have to rebuild the peninsula on our own will unsettle an American populace already fatigued from years pissing around with Bin Laden- a nuke set off on Guam, not sure it would be such an easy sell since the average American doesn't understand the strategic importance of Guam.
The DMZ took all of 45 minutes to determine- Russia and the US drew up the "DMZ" based upon many factors, one of them being cultural- the DMZ does have cultural significance to the Koreans, before WW2. Believe it or not, back then, the North was the industrial powerhouse and the South was the breadbasket. Our economic policies have created and sustained SK as it's own nation (that and our Air Force bombing the North into the stone age in 1952

). South Korea is really an incredible story of one nations ability to overcome the obstacles and, working in tandem with the US, created a regional powerhouse in their own right. They are LIGHT years ahead of their northern brethren- the cost to assimilate the two cultures back into one people is incalculable.
China has often gotten involved simply because they don't want to deal with scores of Korean refugees jumping the border should armed conflict break back out. There isn't a "face saving" solution available to the North- the US will not accept any tarnish to their reputation so close to Russia, nor would China or Russia be willing to do the same. The only thing to do is appeal to the logic of Un and show him that if he decides to push the button, it would be all over for him. The escalation into war is a no-win situation for him that ultimately gets him tossed.
Whatever the outcome, my heart goes out to all the Korean people. They treated me very well when I was there- this entire predicament is a failure of geopolitical super power diplomacy and millions of Koreans have lived their lives under the umbrella of this mistake- each superpower backed their proxy nations, but no one has been able to find the peaceable solution. In my opinion, the peoples of Korea will only find peace once China, the US and Russia come to terms on how to rebuild Korean. Once they do, it's a matter of putting 2 in the chest and 1 in the head of Un and picking up the pieces from there. It would be a political blindside of epic proportions.