Maybe I'll give The Hurt Locker another chance.
In the IDEAL, a movie is to take the audience into someplace they most likely haven't been before and to identify with unfamiliar characters in some way. Probably doesn't matter what rank or branch of the service if the story is good.
I have no plans to watch Precious, The Blind Side, or Crazy Heart, although "Good for them!" for getting their movies that far in the Academy.
My neighbor said she couldn't wear a dress that needed double-sided tape ( a "chick" thing) but Meryle Streep sure carried it off.