Mitch,
You sir are absolutely right about the differences in the Far East. After living there for 9 years, I always was interested in the history and cultural aspects of Japan. Now, I am not trying to glib here but this what I found:
-The Koreans straight up hate (such an ugly word) yes, hate the Japanese. I have never seen such a hate like that other than what exists in the South of the United States.
-The Filipinos absolutely loathe the Japanese, yet have found a way to manage that animosity.
-The Chinese crowd...fugggetaboudit.
However, on the flip side of that coin I remember having a conversation with a Japanese Officer serving in JASDF who asked me one time (after a few sakes) "Do you have pride?". I was a little confused about the question, but I went on to answer that yes I am proud to be an American, a TEXAN and a service member. In retort I asked him and said "and you, do you have pride?" He was just eerily silent and his wife quietly changed the subject and brought back some cheer to the get together. That was weird man and I will never forget that conversation. I really don't know what to make of it, but that was some 20 years ago and I can remember that night and I often ponder that conversation.
In addition, Japan is such a crowded place, especially in the big cities like Tokyo. I mean like PACKED. While I was there and traveled through out the country by train you would every once and a while catch a older Japanese man or woman staring at you...HARD. It was a little uncomfortable to be glared at and you wondered "what are they thinking?" Did I remind them of a GI of before? Was one of their relatives killed in WWII? Did a GI steal or "take" his girlfriend. Hell, I don't know, but man if looks could kill.
When I visited the Hiroshima Peace Memorial I shed a tear or two and a sniffle. However, the Japanese visitors WEPT. My girlfriend at the time was Japanese and she cried and cried and talked about the "shame" she felt. Wow man. So, WWII is a very painful subject to the Japanese with a combination of defeat, contrition, loss of national pride and shame about their countries actions. There (to me) is no "moving on" in Japan as there is always this element that the world will NEVER EVER trust them again and because of the War they were the country who was bombed. The only country in History to be bombed with nuclear weapons. I guess that is why the Japanese are the way they are now a days...y'now secretive yet very humble, formal and extremely polite.
So, in other words there are no celebrations for the Japanese vets, no Memorial Days or Veterans Day like here in the US. There are no pictures of "Grand Pa" in his Imperial Uniform on the walls of Japanese houses. In fact, there is nothing celebrating, honoring, hailing or even reminding Japan of WWII. Nothing...period.
So, yeah there is a HUGE difference Mitch in attitudes on the other side of the world and uhhh it will take a 1000 years to forget this one.
John from Texas