One of my ancestors for example was General Avitabile , he was a general in Sikh service and artilleryman , then was made governor of Peshawar.There are many stories about him..one of the "funniest" is this :the Sikh King consigned him a certain number of prisoners to guard and intimated not to let them escape, the governor Avitabile readily ordered them to be hanged..when the king returned and knew of the governor's decision he was really angry..Avitabile, a man full of particular humour said to the king "from where they are now, it's pretty sure they can't escape!" ..the king laughed at this answer and everything was ok..Avitabile was one of the few europeans to put order in that unfortunate land..maybe he comprised that there you can earn respect only with the violence..and so he did..even today the mothers of the little afghans and pathans to keep quiet their babies say "..or i'll call Abu Tabela (the name Avitabile)..his feats earned the right to a legion d'honour and a meeting with Wellington in London (he helped the British in the afghan expedition and the famous retreat from Kabul 1842)..so for the standards of today he is really a butcher , but at his times the iron fist with which governed his province earned many honours , the honours one man today could receive for , let's say a Nobel...times change...