Okay, to revisit this. I was at no point denigrating the current South. You have clearly misunderstood. My point was that there is no difference now between the North and South in racial attitudes, both good and bad. (btw, I live in the Plains in a town you'd never have heard of) but I'm been in every state in the Union, went to school in Boston and served in California, and about 15 other countries) My 'amazement" if you will, would be no different if I were to travel to Eastern Germany now and not see Soviet tanks, for example. One can be amazed in a good way. Maybe amazed was not the best choice of words. Pleased? Reflective? Not sure what would have been a better choice. There probably is one
Yes, I was pleased to see the integration and acceptance there.
Yeah there are segregated communities all over the US, including the South. 9th Ward comes to mind. And like most large and small cities in the US there are black neighborhoods and white neighborhood. There was, and may still be overt Racism in the North, but Jim Crow laws existed in the South, Texas being part of it The North had issues, and still does, and so does the US. An awful lot of people have no use for our current president ONLY because he is black. You may not hear that in your circle, but you know that it is true.
But generally the South has come a very long way. That doesn't mean they grew up or were the little child. But an awful lot of the change there was not voluntary. It actually took Federal troops to force integration.
I'm not sure why you think I'm criticizing the current South, I'm doing anything but. Nor am I being patronizing. My point was and is, the South has come a very long way in 40 some years. You know that is true. And that is good.