Tom, when you post an opinion, you acquire a dog mate.
We are all objective subject to the baggage we bring, and we all have it, no exceptions I am afraid. I think you might want to reconconsider your defintion of laughable, it may have a wider perimeter than you might first imagine. Of course I am only giving you my objective observation.
FWIW, I have some personal history with arrogance and I have found it just fine if you can back it up. It was an old fighter pilot thing and since I am still here, I guess I managed; I think you will find that FL will do the same.