So every year a friend of mine hosts a big July 4th bash, it's the official kick off of Summer with our group of friends.
I haven't seen any of my friends since our Super Bowl party, we talk via texts and Facebook.
At one point, my friend who hosts the party said the party is a no go this year, not worth the risk.
Well slowly but surely, my friends have been getting together; a bonfire here, a birthday party there, started out with 4 of 5 people, I saw pictures the other day of the latest one, about a dozen people hanging out, drinking, grilling, no masks, no nothing.
Yesterday I get text "We're heading to New Hampshire next Saturday to get fireworks for the July 4th bash, you in?".........……..there are 5 of us who kick in 200.00 each every year, take a ride to NH to pick them up...…….my reply "Nope, sorry, I'm out"...……….
Then the nastiness began; some real nasty texts, offensive, derogatory words being thrown at me, so now I'm on the **** list with my friends because I'm not going to the July 4th bash.
Not taking it seriously, dumb and selfish all come to mind.
All it takes is for ONE person to have it and spread it all around the party.
Some Harvard doctor last night on 60 Minutes said this pandemic/virus is here for AT LEAST another year, so he's thinking June 2021; it will either burn out by then or a vaccine will be available that will work to prevent it.
If that is the case; no summer get togethers, no fall football get togethers, Thanksgiving, Christmas, NYE, no spring toy soldier shows, nothing until next June.
If this pandemic and my attitude towards it (better to be safe than sorry) costs me all the friends I have, then I guess I'll have to learn to live with the disappointment.
They can live their lives the way they want to.
And so can I.